There's just no easy way to say it: please don't bake for my peanut-allergic child--or any child with a food allergy, for that matter. Please, please don't do it.
You may be the mom who "loves to bake the treats" and I don't doubt that your intentions are good. But the risks are just way too high. Please ask the parents of the allergic kids, either directly, or through the teacher, to contribute a safe item. So many allergic reactions occur because someone ate a cookie or a cupcake they "thought" was safe. I cite the story by Dr. Robert Wood in his book "Food Allergies for Dummies." A fellow allergist baked him cookies, assured him they were "safe" and because of cross-contact of which the baker was unaware, Dr. Wood (himself allergic to peanuts) needed 5 doses of Epinephrine to recover--his reaction was that severe.
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I am volunteering at my older child's class on Friday's Hallelujah Bash (the Christian-alternative to Halloween Party *grin*) and was slightly tickled to receive an email from the party organizer providing details of the party, mentioning the treats and a peppy quip after that, "No Peanuts of course!". For some context, I was not consulted on the topic and I know the other mom in the class who also has a peanut- and tree-nut-allergic child as well and I do not think that she was consulted on the treats either. This is the first year that teachers have been trained on having kids in their class with life-threatening allergies and although I think they are doing an excellent job so far (one emailed me to ask if an acorn would be ok for my daughter to touch - I was very appreciative of the gesture), they have not had the need to provide or prepare food for the class so this is really, the first class party of the year for them, with kids who have food allergies.
So did she mean, no visible peanuts? Or "I don't think it has peanuts."? Did everyone get a memo as well about tree nuts? Did they know that essence of almond anywhere would also cause an anaphylactic reaction? Or with the example cited in this article, a knife that touched peanut butter that touched a stick a butter, which is then used in a cookie recipe, could also cause a child to have a reaction?
So er . . . I am with Jenny from Nut-Free Mom on this - please do not get offended or annoyed if I tell my child not to touch your home-baked goods and whip out a packaged cookie of my own to give to her. It's nothing personal. However, since you certainly did not think it personal enough to make the food allergy notification more of an ALERT than a footnote, I am sure you won't take our stand personally.